Life thoughts 🌞

We all have dreams. 💕

I remember what my dreams were when I was 13; it was an image of a beutiful garden of my own which I related to a sort of fuzzy and warm feeling i had while thinking of it.

Reading what I just wrote, that doesn't really make sense, does it?

An image... I guess an image is what we tend to associate with happiness or beauty.

I couldn't tell if it's because of social media or human nature, but I must say, I'm way happier when I'm living in the moment and not watching other people live their amazing lives in my phone.

It's the same old talk now, becuase we keep criticizing our ways with technologies, the toxicity and the damage social media has made to our society since the pandemic, but still don't do anything about it because "it's too difficult" or "not worth the sacrifice of being defferent".

I honestly get annoyed by just seeing the same kind of posts. We are all getting to used to this hypocresy, and it's okay. It's just how we live nowadays, and it's just how everyone else acts.

But, really, we all have personalities, and we shouldn't compare this much with people as we do now.

What I'm trying to say is that, social media is really letting us down... Fashion shouldn't become a way to become someone else or appear something you're not just for you to feel part of a group; fashion should be a way to enhace and show your own personality so others can appreciate the beauty on who you are. 💐

You will not be happier forever if you follow everyone else, but only if you focus on evolving and maturing in who you really are. 🌊

This goes out of saying, but I don't find attractive in a man when he is constantly worried about what others may think, the fashion sense or the popular lifestyle everyone else online is having.

I feel attracted to a man who keeps true to himself and who is in harmony in who he really is. Specially I like a man who shares the same life interests as I do and with whom I could share a lifetime with and be happy. And I think this goes both ways.

I love a man who can make me feel like the others don't matter and that appearences in society aren't that big of a deal. I want a man with whom I can see myself living happily ever after. MY conception of happily ever after.

And, as we all have different personalities, we all have differents points of view in this matter.

I really don't know how people maintain meaningful relationships based solemnly on looks and care for a partner only if they fit the idea of beauty that's been imposed by society or social media.

Even being an outcast or an emo has been made a popular lifestyle. Tiktok and its relatable content, with which if you don't feel related to, you are weird. Nowadays, youngsters feel the need to be seen as deifferent, but really they are the same as every other emo kid in the world.

The same goes with these different aesthetics. First it was Facebook and Tumblr. Now its Instagram and Tiktok.

Same old story but scarier.

People inducing others to feel overwhealmed, anxious or triggered by certain things because if not you are weird or a psycho. That's not right, that's playing with the world's mental health for some views that traduce into dome cents or pennies in your bank account.

That's not right, and that's what has been happening for at least 10 years.

Life was way more happier in 2014. Society was. Without this much social media.🎀

But, you can be happy now if you loose the imposed mindset social media has induced you into believing. You can be happy if you let yourself be you.

You can't find your soulmate if you don't show others your soul. 🧸

Well, I don't think many will read this but, if you are, I'm thankfull you have read my insights of today.

Hope you have a great week 🍀

Peace,

Angelica